Going flat.

I mentioned the other day that I met with my plastic surgeon so that they could look at my radiation wound and determine what to do with it (whether or not to debride again). During that conversation, I asked if the breast cancer on my skin would inhibit the surgery, since there are bumps on my chest. He stated that it would not but then went on to discuss his recommendation not to do reconstruction. This came as a bit of a shock to me, as he has been a big advocate for doing reconstruction originally. Given the extensive radiation that I’ve had to both sides and the fact that I still have open wounds from the second round of radiation that ended mid-September, there are concerns. Wound healing aside, there is also a concern to adding a foreign object (the implant) to my body. My body may heal perfectly, but adding something else for my body to heal around is concerning, especially given how hard it is fighting against this cancer already. My body is already weakened. Adding another element to the healing process with a weakened immune system and knowing there are already healing issues is not recommended.

Obviously my life is more important than a reconstructive surgery. Setting that fact aside, this may be one of the hardest things that I have had to deal with throughout this entire cancer experience. Since the very beginning, reconstruction has been my “light at the end of a long tunnel”. I endured the placement of tissues expanders for over a year as well as the expansion of those expanders, which – to put it nicely – sucked. I have dealt with an uneven chest for most of that year – perhaps a month of that year I had an even chest. My self-esteem has wavered throughout this last year, I have been uncomfortable & tight more times than I can count and yet I’ve dealt with it. …because eventually I would have reconstruction. Eventually I would feel somewhat normal again. Eventually…I wouldn’t have surgery looming and I would be able to find comfort in my new body.

Late one night last week, I received a call from my plastic surgeon’s office indicating that they want to do surgery to remove my tissue expanders as soon as possible. We discussed this for a bit. I mentioned that I will be having the PleurX Catheter inserted semi-permanently and that I would prefer to coordinate both surgeries rather than have two separate surgeries within a few days of each other. The next few days were spent trying to coordinate just that – and surgery for both the catheter and the expander removal was set for next Tuesday.

When I went to my pre-op appointment on Friday, I asked what caused the sense of urgency. My doctors had been discussing when I will be able to have MRIs again and this prompted the question of why we were waiting to remove my tissue expanders. After discussing with us further, my plastic surgeon asked if I would be willing to wait a month before having my expanders removed. I would have the catheter placed on Tuesday regardless because that cannot wait, but the surgery to remove my expanders would be done in a month’s time.

The fluid was removed from my expanders on Friday, which is not exciting for me. Yes, the pressure is gone, which is nice, and I no longer knock into my chest whenever I move my arm. But there is a nerve causing some pain under my armpit on my left side from the pressure change and the ribs on my right are actually indented slightly from the pressure of the expander. Combine this with the actual removal of the fluid and I’m saddened by the appearance of my chest after all that I’ve been through.

By waiting a month, the hope is that the skin around my expanders will contract around the deflated expanders. This will not only mean that there will to be less skin post-surgery but it will also allow for smaller incisions during surgery. If I had surgery on Tuesday, I would need large incisions to remove the expanders and some of the skin around it. By waiting 4 weeks, the skin will hopefully contract and therefore will not need to be removed so smaller incisions can be used. Having smaller incisions means that the surgery is less risky in terms of the recovery. We know that I am having issues with healing already because I am still dealing with the radiation wounds. Smaller wounds means smaller area that needs to heal. He will basically be able to cut a small incision under what was once my breast and slide out the expanders from each side. I would also need to go off of Xeloda before, during and after surgery to ensure there is no interference with the healing process.

I asked if it was concerning to have two surgeries within a month and he stated that it was not. Having two surgeries will allow me the opportunity to heal from each without worrying about the other. On Tuesday when I have my catheter put in and begin having a home nurse, I will be able to focus solely on learning that process rather than learning that and having to deal with the two drains from the expander removal. I’ll be able to heal fully from each without being distracted by the other.

I know that’s a lot of information to process and the last few days have been a bit overwhelming as we did just that. The plastic surgeon was comfortable with either decision, however one of my deciding factors was that doctors don’t typically recommend something unless they have a true reason to believe it is the best thing to do. I also feel that if there is something that I can do to make things a little easier for my body, then I certainly want to do that.

So, that’s that for now. I will have my catheter placed on Tuesday and then have my expanders removed in about a month. It’s still not easy for me to move past the fact that I will not be having reconstruction but it helps to have the fluid removed from the expanders now. It’s allowing me the opportunity to get to know my new body. The plus side? This will require a new wardrobe that will be most flattering to my new figure. I suppose I should start saving my pennies now for just that! 😉

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4 thoughts on “Going flat.

  1. You are the most beautiful woman I know and by far the most tenacious! Life may have thrown you a dirty curve but your heart and fiesty soul prevail and inspire all of us daily I wish I had a 1/3 of the grit you have 💚

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