Today, church talked about all pain having purpose. Whether or not we see it or feel it or even understand it – the purpose is there. Whether the pain is physical or emotional pain, the purpose is there. There have been a lot of things happening recently that have given me pause and caused me to stop making excuses and instead make changes in my life. Any obstacle or excuse that I have found has been, quite literally, alleviated before I even had a chance to concern myself with it. I cannot help but see that God has a plan and a purpose, even if He isn’t showing it to me yet.
I’ve mentioned previously that scanziety is very real. Whether you feel great or crappy, there is always a fear when scans approach. Even as recently as December, my doctor was 80% sure my scans looked stable and then – POOF! – cancerous fluid is present, and I didn’t have any symptoms. I’ve been through quite a few scans over the last year & a half – some have been great and others, well, not so much. One thing that I’ve learned is that I cannot change the outcome of the scans. I can only change my perspective of them.
So as tomorrow’s scans quickly approach, I decided that it’s better if I share how I feel physically. I think this will help me to better prepare myself for any news that may or may not come. It is not helpful to worry unnecessarily or spend time fretting about what may or not be. I need facts, conversations with medical professionals and to remain calm. That being said, scans are always something that I try to turn a blind eye to because I don’t want to spend too much time or energy thinking about them beforehand.
I pulled up my tumor markers yesterday, from Wednesday’s blood work, and saw that they were elevated. You may recall that they dropped back on January 5th – which had me jumping for joy. Unfortunately, they are back up again…and higher than they were in December when I stopped Xeloda. My CEA is 16.3 and my Cancer AG 15-3 is 26.7. Yuck.
When I saw my oncologist back in the beginning of January, he had shared that even if my end of January scans showed progression (depending on how much), that he may not change my treatment yet because typically new treatments take 10 – 12 weeks to be in full effect. I don’t know whether or not the fact that my tumor markers were initially lower will factor into that. I imagine that my scans will play a significant role in that decision as well.
I will say that my lungs were full of cancerous fluid when I had my blood drawn – over 1700 ml of it…enough to warrant a procedure to implant a permanent catheter. I don’t know if this matters in terms of tumor markers or not. Perhaps Afinitor doesn’t have the opportunity to work fully on my cancer because it can’t keep up with the fluid build-up in my lungs. Who knows – I don’t even know if that makes sense medically. 😉
Some parts of my skin look significantly better, such as two of the areas above and below my radiation burn that have been quite painful since September. Both areas appear to be healing, which they haven’t done much of in the past 5 months. My skin lesions, on the other hand, aren’t looking as good. They don’t look a whole lot worse, mostly just redder and perhaps one is big enough for a trial now (it may be slightly too small still), but also there seem to be just a couple more than there were a few weeks ago. There weren’t any new ones popping up initially – which was fantastic. That may have changed.
The lymph node on the right of my neck that was previously swollen – and then disappeared – seems to be venturing back into my life. My jaw also suddenly hurts when I yawn, so I’m not sure whether or not that is from Xgeva or a cancerous node.
So that’s where I’m at. Oh, and I’m tired. My platelets have suddenly risen (another concern of mine that Afinitor may have stopped working) so I can’t blame them for my fatigue. It is on my list of questions for the Nurse Practitioner tomorrow though. It doesn’t seem to be getting better, despite my numbers changing.
I’ll admit that when I first saw my tumor markers yesterday, I was a bit distraught. It was the one thing that I was holding onto that would tell me all of these other things could be explained away. Seeing that they had jumped, and higher than December, hurt. A lot. Frankly, I was angry. I can’t catch a break with treatment! My cancer is just too dang smart – it keeps mutating to beat out any chance of it dying off! Why do I keep trying when cancer just continues to win?!
Yes, I was yelling – mostly at the Universe. At that moment, a new song came on the radio and Jacob yelled “This my jam!” and put both hands up the air to dance along while singing to the music. I took a deep breath and smiled.
This is why. Right here. Jacob, Joe…my family, my friends. This is why I continue to fight. This is why I don’t let progression or tumor markers deter me. This is why I will unearth every possibility for treatment that I possibly can in order to live out every single moment of life that I am able to. These boys, these are my reasons.
I may not know what God has in store and I may not know what the future will bring but what I do know is that I am meant to be here now, in this moment. I will not waste my time worrying or being angry about this cancer. I won’t waste my time concerning myself with things that I cannot control. Instead, I will stop, change course and redirect. Because that is the only way to move forward.